In this a work in progress comprehensive list and an account of the attributes ,characteristics and tendencies I have witnessed as a dominant.
They are my own inferences and drawn from demographic experience over the 300+ sessions I have facilitated over the years.
In each description listed will contain a (Bio-physical-chemical-spiritual approach) when you read these they will strike a chord if you identify as a Bottom or a sub\slave with these traits
1. The Foot Boy archetype
He is always meek ,shy and a little nervous at first ,beautiful feet excite him and he is likely to of created a snapshot image of Masters feet in his mind. He is generous by nature and loves to spoil his owner if he has one ,If he roams un owned he is usually always feeling like he is missing something ,because there is always one or two pairs of beautiful feet that he will never forget. foot jobs, tease and denial ,trampling ,CEI ,toe sucking ,spit play ,stockings and high heels and face-sitting are the top kinks with pegging coming in last. But the truth is a real purebred foot boy is perfectly happy with feet near him on him or around him. This fetish typically starts at an early age and eventually becomes an obsessive thought process after the brain is fully developed by 25 if the fantasies that the foot boy has are not brought into the 4D foot fetish has been reported to be a hinderance in a persons social life ,thought life and effects sexual relationships if not satiated. It is a wildly misunderstood fetish and much of my foot boys over the years have told me they feel misunderstood, And I am here to tell you that there are many that understand and can think like the footboy archetype you just need to find them .
2.The Pain slut/ OG masochist
This chap has spent hours consumed with fantasies of a whip wielding Mistress ,a Master that can reach the threshold with him in sanctuary . The masochist brain is a captivating psychitecture of crossed pathways and a lust for the sensational adrenaline drop that occurs when the threshold has been reached, they are often kind, well spoken ,balanced proffessionals ;seemingly all together and love surrendering to one Master . The pain slut creates a deep bond with Mistress éMaster because the absence of physical empathy during the scene is replaced with assurance and care after which reinforces safety and trust in a s/D dynamic . my most tolerant pain sluts prefer their aftercare by way of vinegar spray on the lashing and a nod on the way out (each to their own ) the masochist pushes limits because they learn about themselves each time they do and the introspection is vast when they enter subspace ready for a serving of pain and sometimes coupled with pleasure but a humbling no less.. Physical pain can be a hinderance to the subconscious mind and most true masochists reach their paramount threshold regularly to prepare themselves mentally for any adversity in future it is in that ability to calm the mind while experiencing pain that allows the masochist to have full control of self .it is a mastery that only the masochist will understand. breath-play pegging, erotic hypnosis, cbt, corporal punishment ,whipping, flogging, bastanado,nipple torture are top kinks for my masochists.
3.Text book Bottom
This gent is erotic more than kinky ,He truly wants to please ,serve and adore Mistress within a play session and give it his all for that time being ,in his personal life he is humble ,but not below anyone, He conducts his life as a Top and has boundaries ,He is not a pushover he is a giver to the right people that earn his respect. He will not submit to just anyone he is picky and puts effort into finding the right people to play with .kinks usually include tease and denial,body worship,Tits&ass worship pussy worship , domestic service ,boot worship ,sensation play and light bondage . When in a scene they are immersed and prepared ,focused on attaining praise and encouragement ,he loves to hear a woman moan and is usually fascinated by the female orgasm so much so that he will lose his life getting his partner to orgasm before he quits . in the bedroom he is in control ,his partners submit to him but when he comes to the dungeon he is Mistresses plaything.
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4.Pure Bred Trained Submissive (lifer)
This fellow is usually very loyal and older (45-60) he is already trained and knows all the slave positions,rules and protocol he has the lingo down pat and even teaches me a thing or two, he is anticipatory ,thoughtful and wise ,he enjoys sharing wisdom and facts; he is at all times thinking of Mistress when in her company ; obedient ,good listener and is qualified to do any task at any time without explanation . In his personal life he is submissive but he too has a moral compass and boundaries , in the sessions he most likely will list hard limits but is more concerned with the experience being random and mysterious. he enjoys service and usually lives a life that confirms that. in a scene he requires attention to reassurance ,clearly defined limits and the need to be corrected and taught approvingly, on the Sub matrix I find men usually sit in the middle where they do not want ruthless but they do not want soft they require a graceful balance of both from time to time and need neutral time to contribute to an ongoing arrangement .a joy to have
5.The Hobbyist
this creature Loves to travel the globe or the city looking for a plethora of new kinky experiences ,He is not owned or taken but more indulges in his senses and his craving to give control over for an hour or two, he always comes baring gifts and is a smart cookie in the dungeon, he knows his way around and has experienced many different Mistresses over his time. He is well trained enthusiastic and looking to always cleanse his fetish palate for new experiences. The hobbyist does not connect with his Mistress as much as he just indulges in each moment that he is there . He spends hours searching for new Dommes and when he finds one he is all over it ,he craves the new experience and the thrill of how each Mistress runs her ship. his kinks are broad and roomy and always is up for new things. openminded and respectful in nature the Hobbyist has a passion for the Dungeon backdrop.
6. The Sissy maid
ah My loves for the sissy maid, This divine creature enjoys the experience of becoming a fully trained maid from head to toe, she delights in all things feminization and really enjoys being able to let that alter ego out to play in the comfort and care of a Mistress, The sissy enjoys conversation and cerebral engagement ,nurturing ,punishment and guidance are at the forefront and every sissy maid I have ever met has always been a cock hungry slut. she appreciates the safety and deviant ways of her mistress and puts full trust in master while she dresses up, finding comfort, non judgmental environments and friendly folks are a sissys favorite places. wigs,makeup,heels,stockings and outfits are indulged and the feeling of being beautiful or desirable are key aspects in their roleplay fantasies. feminization,forced bi,domestic servitude,cuckold fantasy,pegging and humiliation are top kinks.
7.The Novice
fresh meat lol jk jk This little mouse gently and quietly appears in the corner with a shocked and frightened look of wonder as he first enters the dungeon ,His eyes wide he has never been to a dungeon before just seen them in porn ,They are nervous and new ,overwhelmed and cute all at the same time ,They have no clue what is going on but trust that mistress will explain .We were all new at one time and I explain to each new novice that as long as you are openminded and can communicate well BDSM can be fun and exciting. a novice will typically tell me that they have no hard limits and I can do anything I want to them so I tell them Im going to parade them around walmart with a tu tu and a helmet , then they form hard limits after coaxing . being a novice is wonderful and make sure you find someone that is safe sane and consensual .
8.The Gamma
he doesnt kneel or submit to anyone unless full trust and respect has been earned,he is not often found in the dungeon but more at play parties and events. He is alpha in his personal life and would be embarassed if anyone ever found out he came to the dungeon and licked cum off of mistresses boots once a month. He is naughty,full of sexual energy and has an innate urge to be used and abused once in a while. Once respect is earned and communication has begun he is a naughty boy taking big cocks up his ass and likes to be called a good girl . spankings, pegging,spit play, humiliation,sph,AND bondage are his thing, he also most likely enjoys getting a strap on down his throat or indulge in medical play to see some taboo outfits. the Gamma is the rarest of clients but theyre out there
9.The gopher
This submissive is in abundance, but limited in my fetish family as I quite enjoy doing my own chores sometimes this sub is The one that literally cannot live without serving a mistress daily,He loves buying coffees, running errands, doing dishes picking up dry cleaning and serving to the best of his ability. He aims to please and his kink is pleasing his dominant by simply making her life easier and more enjoyable .Whatever the task he will do it, and he will sacrifice everything to get it done. god love the gopher . his love language is service of any kind in any way for his master
10.The sensualist
this breed of submissive is all about giving pleasure whether it be a massage or a foot rub he is engaged in pleasing his mistress and enjoying the experience without expectation,he has hard limits and has his own personal little list of things he has under control But he craves the intimacy and connection within the scene to get the desired effect he is looking for , He is gentle ,good with his hands and has stamina which he keeps under lock and key. This submissive is best suited for a traditional Dominatrix archetype that can create a lasting bond within the dynamic over time ,he is not looking for once over he is looking for his master to serve completely and eclusively.
11.The intellectual (sapio)
this submissive is a treat, heady ,wordy and insightful. They bring enthusiasm into their fantasies and roleplays, They have a creative intelligence that washes into a scene as they bring their imagination and wildest fantasies to the one that can make them a reality, they are calm ,unbothered by pain or discomfort and are more focused on the mindfuck that a mistress can serve verbally ,They enjoy listening to Mistress speak almost more than anything else and the simple act of conversing about their desires and fantasies excites them to the point pf dripping. They enjoy wild roleplays and deep conversation ,implied honorifics and taboo roleplay are their gigs. the mind is their biggest sex organ.
12. The paypig
This archetype is rare but genuine .
This Bloke gets off by being financially controlled. His power exchange is solely tied and rooted in the authority of the Dominant he chooses . PaypigS are often meek and shy , they have little ego and they arouse a beta mentality when it comes to women , their sexuality is very much tied into the role of finsub and finds excitement in sending tithes beyond his disposable income , with the affinity for feet and used items being top kinks .
the paypigs are derived from a culture of upper echelon money management and a lack of self control tied with low self esteem and often low expectations for dating or relationships elsewhere . They are often quite anti social
the genuine paypig will work hard to make his mistress happy and will sacrifice mostly anything within his abilities to keep her satisfied .
Because he cannot afford to be without the guidance of someone that’s going to ruin him . Mentally emotionally and financially , and all throughout he will consent to it , making this type of submissive difficult to work with without a contract or previous written agreement on ethical grounds and moral principles.
tough one to work with but fun if it’s consensual
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13.The Loose canon
Every Dominatrix has come across this archetype .He is set in his ways and moody ,you can tell he hasnt gotten laid in years and he is wound up like a top. When you first meet him he is tepid and has as much personality as a common houseplant but once he opens up and is comfortable in his kink sanctuary he becomes a naughty little whore for daddy, he will wear high heels and bark like a dog if you ask him to, he will turn into a primal little saucepot wanton slag and take whatever phallic shaped object you give him ,he will let go,He will completely change during the session and his strings will come loose. afterward he will put on his business suit and walk out the door with panties on and that night will sleep like a baby. Dale if you are reading this yes I used you as a model for this archetype.
14. The Warrior
This Gent has some demons he wants to let go of, he is sensitive ,calm and soft spoken he is communicative and kind ,meek and subservient ,He has one or two situations that have happened in his life that he would like to bring to the dungeon and act out except the ending is in his hands, Mistress is simply there to facilitate. Whatever the scenario (there are hundreds) he cares to uncover discover and discard parts of it he no longer want to reflect on,
immersed roleplay is his kink, allows for some concessions but knows what he wants and is firm on it, He often after the scene is over will cry and require aftercare ,his wounds are slowly healing through his courage to re tell a story and reclaim it. I have great respect for these ones because they are in touch with the parts of themselves they know are dark, and they have the gumption to allow someone else into their path.
aftercare is more important to this type because they require a feeling of connectedness after sharing and unearthing their story, so taking time after any scene is imperative.
15. The Backbone
I have three in my fold,These are the ride or die subs, they approach, they adore and they stay put through the years as a fixture under one Master .They are loyal ,thoughtful ,curious always learning and always honest about where they are at,they never disappear long and their measure of devotion is weighed by the time in which they serve. Men all over the world could use a lesson from this submissive ,he is there for the good times and bad and he doesnt waver.